The past several visits with Mr. Slate had been good. He seemed content, easier, softer. I had the feeling that he had resigned, not given up in a negative way, but accepted things for the way they were. He wasn’t…
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May 25th, 2016 This past week was a challenge with Mr. Stone. He was in a lot of pain and was difficult to communicate with. The caretaker reported that his doctor said it is unsafe to turn him on his…
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May 19th, 2016 Just when I thought I had a workable combination to get at Mr. Slate’s back in the side-lying position, his doctor has put the kibosh on it. The Dr. says that his spine is very fragile now…
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April 27th, 2016 It’s amazing how easy it is to get into a routine. I’ve been feeling pretty good for two months about filling a two hour massage with someone who can’t turn over. I’ve done this by compartmentalizing: 10…
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April 20th, 2016 Today wasn’t such a good day for Mr. Slate. He was in a bad mood when I walked in and was in a bad mood when I left. I spoke to his caregiver about the weight gain…
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April 12th, 2016 When I enter at 2:00 in the afternoon, the room is pitch black. The lights are out and the blinds and curtains are closed. After announcing my arrival and turning on a light and checking that he’s…
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March 18th, 2016 Working with Mr. Slate presents some challenges due to the fact that he is bedridden and can’t turn over. The accessible regions are limited and some creativity is needed. He likes things done in a specific way,…
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March 12th, 2016 Geriatric massage poses some limitations. With Mr. Slate, the incredibly thin, fragile skin on the forearms and shins are an issue. Another major is moving fluid in his legs that is retained from lack of movement. Once…
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March 2nd, 2016 I started working with Mr Slate about a month ago. Mr Slate is 89 years old, bed ridden, and not all that happy. I can understand that, I don’t think I’d be happy if my life was…
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